Bullying is a serious thing!
Hello everyone and welcome back!My previous post was about how to survive this school year and today's post is about something that sadly is observed in the school areas and we all have to be involved with it and help the victims or even ourselves if we've ever been a victim of bullying to erase this phenomenon.I have never been a victim of bullying but it's sad to know that there are students or let's call them human beings,because we are all humans after all, who have to deal with it.I can understand how tough it is to be in a place where there are people who make your life difficult ,what's more when this area is your school!!!
And I say this because school has to be the symbol of peace,acceptance and equality rather than a place of fear and hate.That's my opinion after all.But whatever you are through remember that you are not alone and there are many ways to avoid that behavior against you.
For victims of bullying
- It's very important to tell someone right after you've been bullied.Your parents,your teachers,your friends,they are people who care about you.Don't let bullies have the space to act against you!!
- Don't let them make you feel weak.Bullies maybe are physically stronger than you but they don't have the privilege to have an actual brain that's why they act violently!Don't let them push you down because mentally you are stronger!!!
- Don't be embarrassed of being a victim of bullying,it is not something you chose and has nothing to do with the way you are or something.It's their problem,bullies have low self-esteem and they are weak mentally.They should be ashamed of what they are doing!!
- Be around people who care about you.It's good for you to be surrounded by people,especially with those who will act if you are in danger!!
- Raise your voice against your bullies and let everyone know about the fact that they bully you,no one likes bullies.Let them know that they don't have the right to misstreat you!!Don't be shy,fight for your rights!!!
- Change school enviroment if you can.
- Go to the police if things are getting serious.There are a lot of legal ways to defend yourself.Even if you are victim of bullying or cyber bullying don't be afraid to call for help!!
If you see someone being bullied
- Call for help
- Help the victim defend itself.No violence.Convince bullies reasonably to stop what they are doing,let then understand that they should be ashamed of that.
- Act,don't just watch the victim suffer!Whatever is the situation it concerns all of us.No one should remain silent!!!
- Support the victim mentally to realise that he/she is not weak and you will be by his/her side.Help him/her gain his/her strenght and self-confidence!!
As I said I have never been a victim of bullying but these things are what I would do if I were a victim or someone who saw someone being bullied!!Bulying isn't something acceptable and it concerns all of us.Either way don't stay silent and ask for help!Fight for your right or the right of someone else to live their life in peace!!!Take action!!!
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May I use the picture of the girl that is being bullied and has many words on her?
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